When you have a crush on someone, don’t think too much about it, just follow your heart.
If you ask someone out but the person refuses, simply respond with an okay and move on.
If you view it as a rejection, your feelings will be hurt. Instead, view it as an outcome of your offer.
It’s no different from you liking coffee when the other person doesn’t.
Don’t be afraid of trying to initiate a relationship.
Life is about learning from both our failures and successes at creating them.
-Ven. Pomnyun Sunim