Donate
Contact Us
Jungto Society
Jungto Society Newsletter Sign up
  • Get Started
  • About
    • Jungto Society
    • Ven. Pomnyun Sunim (법륜스님)
    • Our NGOs
    • Find Us Online
    • Visit Us
    • Contact Us
  • Articles
    • A Day in the Life of Sunim
    • Jungto News
    • Press & Media
  • Library
    • Dharma Q&A
    • Meditation Q&A
    • Wisdom Note
    • Practice Resources
  • Online Programs
    • Live Dharma Talk
    • Happiness Workshop
    • Jungto Dharma School – Introduction to Buddhism I
    • 정토담마스쿨 – 근본불교
    • Jungto Dharma School – Introduction to Buddhism II
    • 정토담마스쿨 – 인간붓다
    • 1000-Day Practice
    • Sunday Meditation
  • Offline Programs
    • In-Person Casual Conversation with Ven. Pomnyun Sunim in 2025
    • Dubuk Jungto Retreat Center Volunteering
Resources by Language
Resources by Language
  • Get Started
  • About
    • Jungto Society
    • Ven. Pomnyun Sunim (법륜스님)
    • Our NGOs
    • Find Us Online
    • Visit Us
    • Contact Us
  • Articles
    • A Day in the Life of Sunim
    • Jungto News
    • Press & Media
  • Library
    • Dharma Q&A
    • Meditation Q&A
    • Wisdom Note
    • Practice Resources
  • Online Programs
    • Live Dharma Talk
    • Happiness Workshop
    • Jungto Dharma School – Introduction to Buddhism I
    • 정토담마스쿨 – 근본불교
    • Jungto Dharma School – Introduction to Buddhism II
    • 정토담마스쿨 – 인간붓다
    • 1000-Day Practice
    • Sunday Meditation
  • Offline Programs
    • In-Person Casual Conversation with Ven. Pomnyun Sunim in 2025
    • Dubuk Jungto Retreat Center Volunteering
No Result
View All Result
Jungto Society
  • Resources by Language
  • Dharma School
  • Live Dharma Talk
Home A Day in the Life of Sunim

Banner
What Practice Should I Do When I’m Already Angry?

October 25, 2025
0
0
VIEWS
Share on FacebookShare on Email

October 23, 2025 – Day 2 of Women’s INEB, Introduction to Jungto Society Education

Hello. Today marks the second day of the Women’s INEB Jungto Society Study Tour. After arriving in Korea yesterday and having a welcome ceremony, the participants began their official tour of Jungto Society today. Over the next week, they will travel between Seoul, Mungyeong, Gyeongju, and Namwon to experience and learn about engaged Buddhism.

After completing morning practice and meditation, Sunim headed to the Peace Foundation. He began his day at 7 AM with a breakfast meeting with North Korea experts.

After breakfast, Sunim toured the JTS 32nd Anniversary Photo Exhibition on the 3rd basement and 2nd floors with the experts. The photos quietly captured the traces of JTS’s activities over the past 32 years – from when Sunim established Sujata Academy in an Dalit community in India 32 years ago, to when he encountered North Korea’s food crisis and started the one million signature campaign, to the story of beginning to build schools in Mindanao, Philippines after receiving the Magsaysay Award, and emergency relief activities at disaster sites around the world. The images from education and relief sites in India, Philippines, North Korea, Myanmar, and other regions silently conveyed the heart with which JTS has worked.

After viewing the photo exhibition, they moved to the Peace Foundation conference room for in-depth discussions. They analyzed North Korea’s price trends, economic conditions, market policies, and exchange rate changes, and discussed the possibility of a North Korea-US summit during the APEC period in Gyeongju. The meeting concluded at 9:30 AM.

After seeing off the experts, Sunim spent the morning in his office proofreading manuscripts and handling administrative work. At noon, an expert visited Sunim. After having lunch together, they had extensive discussions about recent changes in the security environment surrounding the Korean Peninsula and corresponding peace-building measures.

At 3 PM, Sunim met with Dharma Teacher Bogwang, Director of JTS India, and Dharma Teacher Hyanghoon, Director of JTS Philippines, who had briefly returned to Korea to attend the JTS 32nd Anniversary Seminar.

After reviewing the second-half business plans for JTS India and JTS Philippines, they discussed what topics to cover at the seminar the day after tomorrow and what schedule to follow during their stay in Korea before concluding the meeting.

From 3:30 PM, Sunim met with the Women’s INEB (International Network of Engaged Buddhists) participants who had come to tour Jungto Society. Ten participants including bhikkhunis and female activists from Thailand, Malaysia, Myanmar, Ladakh, and Cambodia attended. After warm greetings, Sunim gave each participant some pocket money to use during their stay in Korea.

“Thank you.”

After yesterday’s welcome ceremony, the Women’s INEB participants were listening to a lecture by Dharma Teacher Mubyeonsim on “Jungto Society’s Educational Programs” and having a Q&A session.

Dharma Teacher Mubyeonsim introduced various educational programs conducted by Jungto Society, including Jungto Dharma School, Sutra Course, and Happiness School, while sharing many stories about how her own life had transformed after encountering Jungto Society.

Sunim sat quietly listening to the conversation, adding supplementary explanations when needed during the Dharma Teacher’s responses.

After the Q&A session, they had dinner at 5:30 PM. Volunteers had carefully prepared the meal.

After each person served themselves an appropriate amount of food on their plates, they offered a brief prayer of gratitude and began eating.

As the sun set, from 6:30 PM they began their formal dialogue session with Sunim. First, they performed a Theravada-style Buddhist service.

“Namo tassa bhagavato arahato sammā-sambuddhassa.”

After the service, they watched a video together showing how JTS built a school in the earthquake-affected area of Syria last year.

After the video ended, Sunim began the dialogue with a smile.

“Since the Women’s INEB tour hasn’t really begun yet, you might not have many questions. It seems we scheduled this dialogue session too early. But if you have any questions, please feel free to ask anything.”

Anyone who had questions about what they had learned earlier about “Jungto Society Education” was free to raise their hand and ask Sunim. The first person to raise their hand was amazed that Jungto Society operates on a volunteer basis and was curious about the secret behind this.

What Is the Key Factor That Makes People Volunteer?

“One thing that is very important and interesting to me is that so many people volunteer in Jungto Society. I’m curious what the connecting link is. What is the key element that brings all these people together and inspires them to volunteer?”

“The key factor that leads many people to participate in volunteer work is ‘practice.’ Because they have experienced some liberation from their own suffering through practice, they voluntarily step forward wanting to contribute in any way they can out of gratitude.

When people meet me, they often express gratitude, saying they received help during difficult times. It’s precisely these grateful hearts coming together that naturally leads to volunteer work.”

After hearing Sunim’s answer, questions about specific practice methods followed.

“I would like to know how to teach people not to merely recite or memorize the Buddha Dhamma, but to truly practice it from the heart.”

“Buddha Dhamma is not simply a matter of knowledge. It’s a teaching about ‘How can the mind be freed from suffering?’ Let’s first ask ourselves the question, ‘How am I living now?’ If you’re living with stress and suffering, we need to examine why. Usually it’s because we’re being greedy, trying to have things our way, or clinging in ignorance without understanding. So do you want to continue living in suffering? No, you don’t. Everyone wants to live without suffering. To live without suffering, we must realize our ignorance and let go of attachment and greed. Then anyone can be free from suffering. This is the teaching of the Four Noble Truths, called ‘suffering, its cause, its cessation, and the path’ (苦集滅道).

The important thing is not simply to know and memorize that ‘the Four Noble Truths are suffering, the cause of suffering, the cessation of suffering, and the path to the cessation of suffering’ as mere knowledge. This is because it is the principle for escaping from the suffering in our lives. Therefore, rather than knowing many Buddhist terms, it is more important to directly experience that principle—the Buddha’s teaching—in one’s own life.

The principle of the Four Noble Truths is open to everyone. First, one needs to reflect on how one is living. If you are living with stress, it is essential to understand its underlying causes. It is usually because of attachment. Then, naturally, the question arises: ‘Do I want to continue living like this?’ If the answer is ‘no,’ then you must ask yourself, ‘How do I want to live?’ If you want to live without suffering, you must let go of attachment.

However, many people say, ‘I can’t let go of attachment.’ When they say this, I respond, ‘Then live in suffering.’ This is because it is their own choice. Whether to live in suffering with attachment or to let go of attachment and live peacefully—the choice ultimately lies with oneself. There is no predetermined right path. The direction of life is always something one chooses for oneself.”

The conversation gradually deepened. One person was moved by the fact that Sunim had grown Jungto Society for 30 years and was curious about how he overcame the many difficulties he must have faced. Sunim answered with a smile.

How Did You Overcome Difficulties Over the Past 30 Years?

“Jungto Society has been propagating the Dharma for over 30 years. It’s been a long and challenging journey, as life itself is not always stable. During this long journey, when you faced difficulties and disappointments, how did you overcome them?”

“Korea has four seasons: spring, summer, fall, and winter. It’s cold in winter and hot in summer. Some people ask me:
‘How did you endure those cold winters?’
‘How did you bear those hot summers?’
But are these questions really necessary? It’s perfectly natural for winters to be cold and summers to be hot. When it’s cold, you wear more clothes; when it’s hot, you wear lighter clothes. Then there’s no problem at all. Similarly, when you try something and it doesn’t work, you try again. If it still doesn’t work, you try once more. And if it still doesn’t work, you let it go. There’s no special secret.

For example, what should you do if you want to build a large building but have no money? You start with what you can do, according to your circumstances. When I established Sujata Academy in India, I didn’t have a single penny. So I started teaching children under a tree. Then people wove straw to build a temporary school, and later we built a four-room classroom building with bricks.

When I didn’t even have money to buy those bricks, I wondered, ‘How can I raise the funds?’ Then I decided to personally guide pilgrimages to Buddhist holy sites in India. I made this proposal to the pilgrims:

‘I’ll guide you well. But let’s not stay in hotels. Indian people can barely afford proper meals, so how can we eat luxurious food by ourselves? During the pilgrimage, let’s cook simple meals ourselves and live modestly. Let’s use the money we save to build a school for the children.’

Many people agreed to this proposal. About 30 people participated, and by saving on hotel and food expenses, we saved several hundred dollars per person. With that money, we were able to start the school. Like this, you just need to start with what you can do, according to your means.

Of course, there were unexpected incidents. There was a time when robbers broke into the school and someone lost their life. It was a tragic event. However, when I think about it, the school didn’t exist there precisely because of such dangers. If it hadn’t been dangerous, there would have been no reason for the school not to exist in the first place. From the moment we decided to build the school, we had to accept such risks. That’s why even when someone died, we didn’t close the school. We didn’t come here to investigate who killed whom, but to give children the opportunity to learn.

Some people also argued that we should prevent children from families involved in criminal organizations from coming to school. But I opposed this. Why should we deprive them of the opportunity to learn when the children themselves haven’t committed any crimes?

Despite these incidents, I don’t consider them ‘difficulties.’ They’re just natural occurrences, like cold days in winter and hot days in summer. The reason people find things difficult is because of their greed. When you have no money but want to build a large building, that’s when it becomes difficult. It’s not difficult because there’s no building; it becomes difficult because of greed.”

Questions continued to flow.

Among those who suffer, why do some transform their suffering into compassion while others end up harming others? How can we help them cultivate compassionate hearts even in their suffering?
You say living self-reliantly is important, but how can we practice this in daily life? When we need someone like a mirror to reflect ourselves, how do we balance self-reliance with relationships?
How can we help young people who react hypersensitively to anxiety or fear triggers? What approach is effective for youth whose anxiety recurs due to sudden sounds or stimuli?
How much is Seon Buddhist tradition reflected in your daily practice? How do you balance maintaining tradition with modern application?

As the conversation was drawing to a close, one person asked about practice. They said that while they know they should be compassionate and tolerant, there are moments when anger arises instantly, and they sought Sunim’s advice on how to practice in such situations.

What Kind of Practice Should I Do When I’ve Already Become Angry?

“I have learned that it is very important to keep our minds pure. To do so, we must practice diligently, be compassionate, and cultivate tolerance. However, while this is easy to say, it is very difficult to put into practice in daily life. Often, we become angry before we even realize it. In such situations, how should we continue our practice?”

“If you’re angry, simply be aware that ‘I am angry.’ If you’re angry, acknowledge ‘I am angry’; if you’re not angry, acknowledge ‘I am not angry.’ What’s important is to be aware of your current state as it is. Thinking ‘I shouldn’t be angry’ and suppressing it is not practice—it’s merely enduring. That belongs to the realm of ethics or morality, not practice. Suppressing actually creates stress. Therefore, when you’re angry, be aware ‘Oh, I’m angry,’ and if you’ve expressed that anger outwardly, be aware ‘I expressed anger.’

When you have expressed anger, you have harmed others, so you should apologize quickly. However, if anger has only arisen in your mind, you haven’t harmed anyone yet, so you simply need to be aware that ‘anger is arising.’ Don’t judge what you should do; just be aware of it as it is.

Then why does anger arise? The reason anger arises even when there’s nothing to be angry about is because we judge that ‘I am right, and you are wrong.’ However, if we come to our senses and look closely, there is no right or wrong – there are only differences. Difference is the truth, but trying to categorize things as ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ is ignorance and mistaken thinking.

‘Anger’ is a phenomenon that arises from this very ignorance. Mentally, it can be considered a kind of derangement, a symptom of madness. We all experience these symptoms of madness from moment to moment. Therefore, being aware that ‘I am angry’ means simultaneously recognizing in this moment that ‘I am insisting I am right’ and ‘this is a symptom of madness.’ Once you have this awareness, you must now free yourself from this madness. To do so, you must let go of the thought that ‘I am right.’

There are two main types of ignorance. One is ‘fundamental ignorance,’ and the other is ‘momentary ignorance.’ To awaken from fundamental ignorance means to deeply understand that ‘there is nothing to be angry about.’ Momentary ignorance refers to a state where ignorance arises instantaneously due to past habits. When that happens, you need to be aware: ‘Ah, I’ve fallen into momentary ignorance right now.’ In other words, you must be conscious that ‘I am getting angry.’

If you are always awake, anger does not arise. However, if you are not awake even for a moment, anger arises. If you have already expressed anger, you can repent. If you noticed it beforehand, you can let it go right there. Neither is necessarily better than the other. You simply need to respond to whatever arises.

Theoretically, if we are always awake, anger does not arise. However, since we cannot always be awake, anger may arise. It’s fortunate if we are awake, but if we are not awake and anger arises, we can notice it in that moment and stop. If we have already expressed anger, then we can immediately say ‘I’m sorry’ and repent.”

“My friend says that the moment they realize ‘I am angry.’, their anger becomes even more amplified. What is that about?”

“That’s because your friend hasn’t yet realized the fundamental ignorance. In other words, the mental habit of getting angry is deeply rooted in their unconscious mind. Therefore, before recognizing the anger, there must first be an awareness that ‘this is a symptom of madness.’ With that realization, when anger arises, one immediately recognizes it as a symptom of madness and can let go of it as soon as they become aware of it. However, without knowing that ‘this is a symptom of madness,’ the anger continues even while knowing that one is angry. Some people say, ‘I know that getting angry is a symptom of madness,’ but that’s only conscious knowledge. Deep in the unconscious, the thought ‘But you were wrong!’ still remains.

Constantly thinking ‘I should do this’ doesn’t help with practice. Such a mindset leads to repeated resolutions and determinations, and when things don’t go as planned, it creates guilt. Then, instead of reducing suffering through practice, it actually increases. That’s why the most important thing in practice is ‘awareness of things as they are.’ Rather than thinking ‘I shouldn’t get angry’ or ‘I shouldn’t feel anger,’ it’s more important to be aware of the fact when anger arises, just as it is.”

Although there were many more questions to ask, Sunim decided to end the session early as he had to travel to Mungyeong early the next morning. Sunim smiled and gave his closing remarks.

“We’ll have time to talk tomorrow and the day after as well, so if you have questions, please write them down and ask. Most of the Jungto Dharma Teachers will be able to answer your questions, so only ask me about things that can’t be resolved there. (Laughter)

And if there’s something you want to ask, you shouldn’t hesitate or hold back. You must ask anything. There are no questions that shouldn’t be asked. For example, you can ask, ‘Wasn’t the Buddha actually a person who never existed?’ There should be no taboos in questions. That’s how we can reach the truth more quickly.”

At 8:30 PM, the dialogue concluded with loud applause. The female INEB participants held a mindful sharing session to reflect on the day before wrapping up their second day of visiting Jungto Society.

Tomorrow morning, Sunim will give a Dharma Q&A lecture for civil servants at the invitation of Seocho District Office. After moving to Mungyeong Jungto Retreat Center, he will participate in the third day of the women’s INEB program in the afternoon to discuss the topic of ‘Jungto Society Practice.’ In the evening, he will hold the fourth Happy Dialogue Dharma Q&A lecture in Daegu.

Post Views: 2

Leave a Reply Cancel reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Related Posts

Banner
I Keep Crying After Being Diagnosed with Stage 3 Breast Cancer">
I Keep Crying After Being Diagnosed with Stage 3 Breast Cancer

Banner
I Keep Crying After Being Diagnosed with Stage 3 Breast Cancer

October 24, 2025
0
58

Oct 22, 2025 - Religious Leaders' Meeting, Weekly Dharma Assembly, Peace Research Seminar

Banner
My Mother Is Stubborn. How Can I Get Her to Stop Farming?">
My Mother Is Stubborn. How Can I Get Her to Stop Farming?

Banner
My Mother Is Stubborn. How Can I Get Her to Stop Farming?

October 23, 2025
0
56

Oct 21, 2025 - Aegwangwon Autumn Outing, Happy Dialogue (4) Jinju

Load More

Jungto Society is a community of Buddhist practitioners who seek to free themselves of suffering in their daily lives and to make the world a better place.

Donate
Subscribe to Newsletter

Subscribe to our Jungto Newsletter!
EVENTS & PROGRAMS
  • Live Dharma Talk
  • Sunday Meditation
  • 1000-Day Practice
  • Jungto Dharma School 2025
POSTS
  • A Day in the Life of Sunim New
  • Dharma Q&A
  • Meditation Q&A
  • Wisdom Note
  • Jungto News
ABOUT
  • Jungto Society
  • Ven. Pomnyun Sunim (법륜스님)
  • Our NGOs
  • Find Us Online
  • Visit Us
  • Contact Us
RELATED LINKS
Menu
  • Jungto Forum
  • JTS America
  • Pomnyun.com
  • Jungto Korea

Cookie Policy

Copyright © 2025 Jungto Society

Welcome Back!

Login to your account below

Forgotten Password?

Retrieve your password

Please enter your username or email address to reset your password.

Log In
No Result
View All Result
  • Home
  • Get Started
  • About
    • Jungto Society
    • Ven. Pomnyun Sunim (법륜스님)
    • Our NGOs
    • Find Us Online
    • Contact Us
    • Visit Us
  • Articles
    • A Day in the Life of Sunim
    • Jungto News
    • Press & Media
  • Library
    • Dharma Q&A
    • Meditation Q&A
    • Wisdom Note
    • Practice Resources
  • Online Programs
    • Live Dharma Talk
    • Happiness Workshop
    • Jungto Dharma School – Introduction to Buddhism I
    • 정토담마스쿨 – 근본불교
    • Jungto Dharma School – Introduction to Buddhism II
    • 정토담마스쿨 – 인간붓다
    • Sunday Meditation
    • 1000-Day Practice
  • Offline Programs
    • In-Person Casual Conversation with Ven. Pomnyun Sunim in 2025
    • Dubuk Jungto Retreat Center Volunteering
Subscribe to Newsletter
Donate
Contact us