Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"};
\nHe arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; After the book signing, Sunim immediately packed his bags and headed for the airport. There was some construction at the airport, so he hurried to avoid traffic delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; After the book signing, Sunim immediately packed his bags and headed for the airport. There was some construction at the airport, so he hurried to avoid traffic delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; After the book signing, Sunim immediately packed his bags and headed for the airport. There was some construction at the airport, so he hurried to avoid traffic delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; After the book signing, Sunim immediately packed his bags and headed for the airport. There was some construction at the airport, so he hurried to avoid traffic delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; The Dharma Q&A concluded with a big round of applause and was followed by a book signing session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After the book signing, Sunim immediately packed his bags and headed for the airport. There was some construction at the airport, so he hurried to avoid traffic delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; The Dharma Q&A concluded with a big round of applause and was followed by a book signing session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After the book signing, Sunim immediately packed his bags and headed for the airport. There was some construction at the airport, so he hurried to avoid traffic delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; It's the same with your own self. You feel life is difficult because you want to be a perfect person. You want to excel at your job and not hurt anybody around you, but there is hardly anyone in this world who can manage to do that. This is called perfectionism, which is akin to OCD. If it's severe, you might need to seek treatment from a doctor. You must accept that you did your best despite some shortcomings. Dwelling on the past is useless.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Dharma Q&A concluded with a big round of applause and was followed by a book signing session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After the book signing, Sunim immediately packed his bags and headed for the airport. There was some construction at the airport, so he hurried to avoid traffic delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; It's the same with your own self. You feel life is difficult because you want to be a perfect person. You want to excel at your job and not hurt anybody around you, but there is hardly anyone in this world who can manage to do that. This is called perfectionism, which is akin to OCD. If it's severe, you might need to seek treatment from a doctor. You must accept that you did your best despite some shortcomings. Dwelling on the past is useless.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Dharma Q&A concluded with a big round of applause and was followed by a book signing session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After the book signing, Sunim immediately packed his bags and headed for the airport. There was some construction at the airport, so he hurried to avoid traffic delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; \u201cYou may see many faults in your husband or wife. To others, they are just fine. The problem is that your expectations are too high. In reality, they are decent people. If your husband complains about you, what should you think? When your husband complains about things that you lack, you might easily think he doesn\u2019t appreciate you, but that's not the case. He actually thinks too highly of you. He is actually overestimating you, which is why he complains. At such times, you can say, 'Honey, thank you.' If your husband says, 'What do you mean?' you can reply, 'Thank you for rating me so highly.' Then, both of you can laugh it off and stop arguing. Complaining stems from overevaluating others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It's the same with your own self. You feel life is difficult because you want to be a perfect person. You want to excel at your job and not hurt anybody around you, but there is hardly anyone in this world who can manage to do that. This is called perfectionism, which is akin to OCD. If it's severe, you might need to seek treatment from a doctor. You must accept that you did your best despite some shortcomings. Dwelling on the past is useless.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Dharma Q&A concluded with a big round of applause and was followed by a book signing session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After the book signing, Sunim immediately packed his bags and headed for the airport. There was some construction at the airport, so he hurried to avoid traffic delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; \u201cYou may see many faults in your husband or wife. To others, they are just fine. The problem is that your expectations are too high. In reality, they are decent people. If your husband complains about you, what should you think? When your husband complains about things that you lack, you might easily think he doesn\u2019t appreciate you, but that's not the case. He actually thinks too highly of you. He is actually overestimating you, which is why he complains. At such times, you can say, 'Honey, thank you.' If your husband says, 'What do you mean?' you can reply, 'Thank you for rating me so highly.' Then, both of you can laugh it off and stop arguing. Complaining stems from overevaluating others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It's the same with your own self. You feel life is difficult because you want to be a perfect person. You want to excel at your job and not hurt anybody around you, but there is hardly anyone in this world who can manage to do that. This is called perfectionism, which is akin to OCD. If it's severe, you might need to seek treatment from a doctor. You must accept that you did your best despite some shortcomings. Dwelling on the past is useless.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Dharma Q&A concluded with a big round of applause and was followed by a book signing session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After the book signing, Sunim immediately packed his bags and headed for the airport. There was some construction at the airport, so he hurried to avoid traffic delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; Although Sunim wanted to take more questions, he received a message that due to construction at the Atlanta airport, it was advisable to arrive at the airport three hours prior to departure. Promising to return next year, Sunim concluded with these words:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYou may see many faults in your husband or wife. To others, they are just fine. The problem is that your expectations are too high. In reality, they are decent people. If your husband complains about you, what should you think? When your husband complains about things that you lack, you might easily think he doesn\u2019t appreciate you, but that's not the case. He actually thinks too highly of you. He is actually overestimating you, which is why he complains. At such times, you can say, 'Honey, thank you.' If your husband says, 'What do you mean?' you can reply, 'Thank you for rating me so highly.' Then, both of you can laugh it off and stop arguing. Complaining stems from overevaluating others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It's the same with your own self. You feel life is difficult because you want to be a perfect person. You want to excel at your job and not hurt anybody around you, but there is hardly anyone in this world who can manage to do that. This is called perfectionism, which is akin to OCD. If it's severe, you might need to seek treatment from a doctor. You must accept that you did your best despite some shortcomings. Dwelling on the past is useless.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Dharma Q&A concluded with a big round of applause and was followed by a book signing session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After the book signing, Sunim immediately packed his bags and headed for the airport. There was some construction at the airport, so he hurried to avoid traffic delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; - I regret raising my child with too much ambition. How can I find peace of mind after retirement?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Although Sunim wanted to take more questions, he received a message that due to construction at the Atlanta airport, it was advisable to arrive at the airport three hours prior to departure. Promising to return next year, Sunim concluded with these words:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYou may see many faults in your husband or wife. To others, they are just fine. The problem is that your expectations are too high. In reality, they are decent people. If your husband complains about you, what should you think? When your husband complains about things that you lack, you might easily think he doesn\u2019t appreciate you, but that's not the case. He actually thinks too highly of you. He is actually overestimating you, which is why he complains. At such times, you can say, 'Honey, thank you.' If your husband says, 'What do you mean?' you can reply, 'Thank you for rating me so highly.' Then, both of you can laugh it off and stop arguing. Complaining stems from overevaluating others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It's the same with your own self. You feel life is difficult because you want to be a perfect person. You want to excel at your job and not hurt anybody around you, but there is hardly anyone in this world who can manage to do that. This is called perfectionism, which is akin to OCD. If it's severe, you might need to seek treatment from a doctor. You must accept that you did your best despite some shortcomings. Dwelling on the past is useless.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Dharma Q&A concluded with a big round of applause and was followed by a book signing session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After the book signing, Sunim immediately packed his bags and headed for the airport. There was some construction at the airport, so he hurried to avoid traffic delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He arrived at the Ronald Reagan Washington National Airport late at night, and by the time he reached the Washington Jungto Center, it was almost midnight.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Tomorrow, he is scheduled to meet with a security expert in Virginia, near Washington D.C., and hold a Dharma Q&A for the Korean community.<\/p>\n","post_title":"How can I restore my relationship with my wife, who has become indifferent to me?","post_excerpt":"May 4, 2024 - North America East Coast Dharma Q&A Tour (6) Atlanta","post_status":"publish","comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","post_password":"","post_name":"pomnyun_240504","to_ping":"","pinged":"","post_modified":"2024-12-02 20:40:53","post_modified_gmt":"2024-12-03 01:40:53","post_content_filtered":"","post_parent":0,"guid":"https:\/\/www.jungtosociety.org\/?p=18875","menu_order":0,"post_type":"post","post_mime_type":"","comment_count":"0","filter":"raw"}],"next":false,"prev":false,"total_page":1},"paged":1,"column_class":"jeg_col_2o3","class":"jnews_block_37"}; - What are some ways to resolve cultural differences and racial discrimination in the workplace?<\/p>\n\n\n\n - I regret raising my child with too much ambition. How can I find peace of mind after retirement?<\/p>\n\n\n\n Although Sunim wanted to take more questions, he received a message that due to construction at the Atlanta airport, it was advisable to arrive at the airport three hours prior to departure. Promising to return next year, Sunim concluded with these words:<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u201cYou may see many faults in your husband or wife. To others, they are just fine. The problem is that your expectations are too high. In reality, they are decent people. If your husband complains about you, what should you think? When your husband complains about things that you lack, you might easily think he doesn\u2019t appreciate you, but that's not the case. He actually thinks too highly of you. He is actually overestimating you, which is why he complains. At such times, you can say, 'Honey, thank you.' If your husband says, 'What do you mean?' you can reply, 'Thank you for rating me so highly.' Then, both of you can laugh it off and stop arguing. Complaining stems from overevaluating others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n It's the same with your own self. You feel life is difficult because you want to be a perfect person. You want to excel at your job and not hurt anybody around you, but there is hardly anyone in this world who can manage to do that. This is called perfectionism, which is akin to OCD. If it's severe, you might need to seek treatment from a doctor. You must accept that you did your best despite some shortcomings. Dwelling on the past is useless.\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n The Dharma Q&A concluded with a big round of applause and was followed by a book signing session.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After the book signing, Sunim immediately packed his bags and headed for the airport. There was some construction at the airport, so he hurried to avoid traffic delays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \"Thank you!\"<\/p>\n\n\n\n Upon arriving at the airport, he checked in his luggage and had dinner, which had been packed for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n After a brief wait at the airport, he boarded his flight to Washington D.C. at 9 PM. Sunim quickly fell into a deep sleep on the plane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n
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