The way you love your child should change as they grow.
Until they are three, they need tender loving care.
In childhood they need you to set a good example by creating a loving and harmonious family.
In puberty, give your child space and allow them to learn from their failures.
Once your child is over 18, you should not support or interfere with his or her life.
-Ven. Pomnyun Sunim
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