It’s your desire to be seen in a positive light by others, but others will have their own feelings on how they perceive you.
Wanting others to perceive you in a certain way is your attempt to try and control how others feel.
You will feel freer and lighter simply by accepting that others get to choose how they perceive you.
-Ven. Pomnyun Sunim
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