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Fix Your desire to Fix Others

April 26, 2022
Fix Your desire to Fix Others

A couple’s fight begins over a trivial matter.

Like little kids, two grown-ups fight like they have the power to fix each other.

No one can change another person.

How can we fix other people when we can barely change ourselves?

The way for a couple to live together happily is no mystery:

Advice is better than blame, and understanding is better than advice.

What really needs to be fixed is our desire to fix other people.

Illustration by Maseol

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